Mindset is everything
RECAP OF MY WOMEN’S BUSINESS RETREAT THIS WEEKEND
I’ve entered into a 10 month business program to bring LadyDrinks to the next level and this weekend was a retreat with the founder and the 6 women enrolled. I was surprised by what we spent one morning on.
RECAP OF MY WOMEN’S BUSINESS RETREAT
I swear, I haven’t worn a fleck of makeup since Sunday. I’m drained, but I’m invigorated.
When I left my full time job last November to run LadyDrinks full time, I knew I needed help. How to run a successful business wasn’t going to divine itself one day. A member told me over dinner one night about a business program she was enrolled in and designed to take each woman in the cohort to a certain revenue level. I thought to myself, “I want to be enrolled in something like that.” Well, I did. This weekend, we spent the weekend knee-deep in each of our businesses’ financials. My biggest takeaway was around…
I’ve listened to “The Secret” a million times, both in book and movie form. Intellectually, I got the philosophy that “thoughts become things.” But the founder of my business program spent an entire morning devoted to mindset. Business success is “80% mindset. 20% skillset,” she counseled. We can make widgets till the cows come home, but if we don’t think, believe, emote that our widget business will cross the six figure mark, it won’t. I was also surprised to learn we generate 70,000 thoughts in a day, and most are negative.
ESTABLISH A MORNING RITUAL
Rituals can help with mindset. Some of the most successful people in the world, including Tony Robbins, have morning rituals. I established mine. I already work out first thing in the morning to change my physical state. It’s my first ‘win’ of the day and sets the tone for the day. I email a list of 10 things I’m grateful for to three LadyDrinks members daily. And finally, saying aloud a daily affirmation or mantra around success.
CARRY A BRAG BOOK
One of my members said to me this morning, “As South Asian women, we don’t credit ourselves enough.” True. This is why she suggested carrying a brag book. In other words, dedicate one notebook just to wins. It’s not enough to carry our ‘wins’ around in our heads. Efficiency expert Ari Meiselrecommends everyone keep an ‘external brain’ where our wins are documented. We can refer to them when times get tough.
BOOK READING LIST
Mentors can be in person. Tomorrow, we host a webinar with Angela Lee of 37 Angels on how to raise angel funding for our businesses. Mentors can also be found in books, especially when someone successful writes a memoir like Phil Knight, founder of Nike. Here are a list of suggested books from the retreat:
Today’s member spotlight is on Priya Sajja, Vice President, Global Strategy, Wealth Solutions at Bank of New York Mellon. She’s most proud of sponsoring the LadyDrinks screening of the film about Ruth Bader Ginsburg last year. Learn why.
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